I admire that you’ve made your relationship so public, but surely you understand why you get backlash for posts like that. There are many aspects of your dynamic that are huge red flags in a ‘traditional’ relationship. You're under no obligation to explain yourself, but it certainly would help the public side of it. Why do you feel this sort of relationship is preferable to one based more on compromise? Do you think you can maintain this dynamic long-term? Do you worry the novelty will wear off?