I admire that you’ve made your relationship so public, but surely you understand why you get backlash for posts like that. There are many aspects of your dynamic that are huge red flags in a ‘traditional’ relationship. You're under no obligation to explain yourself, but it certainly would help the public side of it. Why do you feel this sort of relationship is preferable to one based more on compromise? Do you think you can maintain this dynamic long-term? Do you worry the novelty will wear off?
Thank you for the questions! First of all, yeah we knew it was kind of a risk to live our relationship in such a public way, that not everyone would understand it or the things we do. But it is who we are and we are not going to hide or change just because other people might not agree with us.
I would not say this type of relationship is preferable to any other, every relationship is different and you got to find what works for you, makes you happy and fulfills you. What may work perfectly fine for you could be a disaster if I try to duplicate it myself, and even now, my relationship with Master is evolving to try and find the point where we are happiest. It is a process where both parties have to give in a little bit.
I think this type of relationship is maintainable over time because it is who we really are, I have a submissive personality and Master has a dominant personality, so we are made for each other. I wouldn’t call it a gimmick because it’s who we are, it is ingrained in us. The best example I could think of is. If you are gay, you like men, that’s who you are and that is not going to change no matter how much time passes by, your liking of guys is not a gimmick or a phase, you cannot change who you are because you were born that way. That is exactly how I feel about being a sub, it is who I am and I am perfectly happy with that.
I am very lucky to have found someone as special, caring, loving (and hot) that complements me. He is everything I have ever dreamt of and more. You know you have something special when you can just be with someone, not doing anything special but it still feels like the best time of your life. He brings a smile to my face by just being there. My favorite time of the day is when I am waiting outside his office to go to the gym, I am waiting in my car listening to music and suddenly he appears from the front doors of the building, waves and smiles and me, the feeling I get from that can’t compare to anything else, it fills my heart with warmth and love, I forget all my troubles and makes everything in life better.
Ps. Sorry for the love rant but I miss him so much and venting on here makes me feel better